Tuesday, 15 April 2014

M is for the Mr's

In my more melancholic days I regard every past relationship as a mistake. I look at everything that they could have been and see them as a failure. But as the saying goes you should learn from your mistakes so here is what I have learned from some of the Mr's

MR EX - He taught me that love doesn't mean forever and the power of reflection. He taught me that I'm not perfect and to never give up on yourself or your friends. He taught me that I didn't need him. He taught me that I can be bitter sometimes and bitter isn't pretty.

MR COMPLICATED - He brought me the courage to start this blog. He taught me that stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. He taught me that just because someone makes you feel sexy it doesn't necessarily mean that you want them to. He taught me that I cannot separate my emotions and that respect matters.

MR NOBODY - He taught me that even a nobody can mean a lot even though I tried to convince myself that he didn't. He taught me that spontaneity is not always a good thing and that there is safety in everyday habits but to be spontaneous sometimes feels really good. He taught me that if you don't feel confident to introduce him to your friends then he probably isn't for you.

What have you learnt from your past relationships?


  1. My biggest lesson learnt from past relationships is never to be with someone who doesn't support you in achieving your full potential.

  2. It's good you got something out of those relationships. People from our past can teach us so much.

    Liz A. from Laws of Gravity

  3. Sometimes I think we are all made up of the people we've met who have influenced us in very different ways. Some influences are great; others not so much. Good luck with the rest of the A - Z Challenge. :)

  4. I learned that when a relationship doesn't feel right deep down inside. Its not right. And ignoring that little thought in that back of your head will only make the end that much more painful.